*exhales deeply* so. my co-worker/classmate/friend is not here today. a couple weeks ago, she confessed to us in the office that an ex-boyfriend was harrassing her. sending texts, emails, and fb messages. messages like "we will be together" "i love you forever" and weird shit like, "i have the same initials as obama...isn't that cool?" (#weirdo). anywho, this particular day she was extra nervous. within 24 hours creep had sent over 35 messages to her email (she had blocked him on fb and changed her number). all the same type of creepy messages. but now back to back, aggressive, and more demanding. "give me ur new number". we were def nervous for her. he knows where she lives and seems crazy enough to pop up. i suggested filing a police report, just in case. that was 2 weeks ago. today, she called in. she's crying and hysterical. creep somehow got her number and is calling, texting, emailing her non-stop this morning. she's going to the police.
*exhales even deeper...fighting tears* last week my sister sent a text that read "i love you". this was only weird because i hadn't heard from her in weeks. at all. my mom told me something was going on with her but wouldn't tell me what it was until i came home to visit. "this isn't something you wanna hear over the phone" she said. but i pushed and proded. and regretted. i blew up my mom and sister's phones the day i got that text. i got the most horrible news i could imagine. my sister had been raped a few weeks earlier. my. heart. stopped. regardless of the shennanigans she had been a part of months prior, regardless of whatever she was doing now, she did not deserve this. she thinks its her fault. she's not sure how to deal with it. hell, neither am i.
when will it all just stop...???
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